Category: lifestyle

~~ Be yourself

~~ Don’t gossip too much..

~~ Think before you talk

~~ Be nice always,even to your   haters

~~ In all things,be patient

~~ Always click the button  “slow to anger”

~~ Never let anyone look down on you

~~ Speak positively to your life every morning

~~ Try to love all,and treat everyone equally.

~~ Pray always.

My newly-landed-in-my-heart man and I spend hours (non-exaggeration) on the phone talking about anything and everything the world has to offer.
Oneday I asked him, “I think we need to talk and do what normal couples talk about and do on the phone” yet was baffled by the statement I made and asked “but what do normal couples talk about?”
We laughed at first because it is so hard to imagine that a couple can just spend time on the phone talking about themselves, and what about themselves?

We tried exploring, but even then did we end up talking about topics of the world, covering relationships, life in general and so much more laughter.
Only towards the end of the call did we think about expressing ourselves towards each other. It is rather sad that we only have like 20 – 30 minutes to express us in our relationship, but then it assures me that we are aware of the world around us and we want to discuss our opinions around it, therefore smashing down boredom between us.
Nevertheless, it makes sense that prior to our relationship, we were friends for three years, and we still discussed the world and everything around us, even the random content. And now, why should things change when we can still keep the level of friendship going.
It also makes sense that when we are together, we can do normal things done by a couple, and still get to talk about random topics.
We are normal right?

source: Women24

Stop comparing yourself to others. If you want to build your self-confidence, then you have to focus on improving your own life for the better, not on making your life more like your best friend’s, your older brother’s, or like those of the celebrities you see on television. If you want to build up your confidence, then you need to know that there will always be someone who is prettier, smarter, and richer than you, just like there will always be someone who is less attractive, less intelligent, and less wealthy than you are; all of this is irrelevant, and what is relevant is caring about advancing your own goals and dreams.
You may lack confidence because you’re convinced that everyone else has it better than you do. However, at the end of the day, it only matters if you’re happy by your own standards. If you have no idea what those are, then it’s time to do some soul searching before you move forward.
Additionally, studies have found that spending time on social media often encourages people to compare themselves with others. Because people tend to post only their triumphs and not their realities of daily life, it can seem as though the lives of others are more wonderful than your own. This is likely not true! Everyone has ups and downs in their lives.

Practice gratitude.

Often at the root of insecurity is a feeling of not having enough of something, whether it’s emotional validation, material items, good luck, or money. By acknowledging and appreciating what you do have, you can combat the feeling of being incomplete and dissatisfied.

Finding the inner peace that accompanies true gratitude will do wonders for your you.
Take some time to sit and think about all of the things you have going for you, from your wonderful friends to your health.
Sit down and make a gratitude list, writing down all of the things you are thankful for. Read it over and add to it at least once a week, and it will put you in a more positive, empowering frame of mind.